Disability

  • My best decisions from 2025

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    cake with white frosting and coral colored sprinkles that spell out yay!

    Here are three of the best decisions I made last year, both for myself and my family.

  • Wheelchair Halloween costume ideas

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    Wheelchair-Friendly Halloween Costume Ideas

    None of these wheelchair-friendly costumes require any sewing or art skills. I should know – I made them!

  • When leaders refuse to share or care

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    A woman is accompanying a teenager using a wheelchair into a brick building. The sign in front says "vote here: polling place". There are American flags all along the top of the sign.

    Let’s call ableist policies what they really are: a refusal to share or care.

  • An uncomfortable ‘Welcome’

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    field with pink, yellow, and magenta tulips

    I’m glad “Welcome to Holland” comforts so many caregivers. I’m just not one of them.

  • Different isn’t wrong

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    child sitting in a wheelchair plays on a playground

    Yes, something is wrong, but it’s not with him.

  • Sharing is caring, except when it’s not

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    close-up of a woman's hands typing on a smartphone

    You can raise awareness without posting details of your children’s traumatic moments online.

  • Take a look: I wrote a book!

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    A miniature figurine of a dark haired woman stands on a mountain made of a blue book, spine side up. Additional colorful book mountains surround her. In the background is a blue sky with clouds made of cotton balls.

    I’ve been focusing on an exciting new project – my upcoming book, Show Up and Bring Coffee!

  • The gift of ‘I get it’

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    four women are holding mugs (some teal mugs, some orange) and making a toast

    There is such a sense of relief that comes from meeting other parents dealing with similar challenges.